My mom got pregnant with me in High school. I was born January 14, 1996. I remember being little going back and forth from my dad’s house to my mom’s...It could have been worse. My parents could have hated each other...
When I was 3, my brother Josh Lucas was born and I was not happy at all. I was angry. I hated my brother. He got all of the attention. I learned to live with it and we became best friends.
When I was 4, I was playing nicely by myself in my room. My mom called me for dinner but I did not answer, but not because I was ignoring her. I just couldn’t hear her. My mom came into my room and I could see her lips moving, but I couldn’t hear her. Doctors have no idea why I became deaf. It was like one moment I could hear and the next I couldn’t. I did not even notice I was deaf, until my mom came into my room to get me and I couldn’t hear her. I couldn’t hear myself talk or scream. Yes, I screamed; as loud as my little body would let me. My mom immediately took me to the doctor. The next 6 months my family learned sign language and found ways to make my life as normal as possible.
Three months later, my mom and dad finally got married. My parents bought a new house and Josh and I loved it. It was big and fun. We could run around all over. We had our own toy room filled with more toys than we could play with. Life was great. For my parents honeymoon they went to Fiji and they wanted us to come with them. Our first vacation as a family rocked. We had a ton of fun.
Eleven months later, my little sister, Avalyn Grace, and brother, Levon Jackson, were born. Josh was the jealous one then. Ava and Levi got attention and he did not like it. My parent now had four kids and both worked. How were they going to raise 4 kids, work, clean the house, and make us food? My parents had an idea. The next few weeks were spent interviewing nannies, maids, and chefs from all over Chicago. Finally, my parents found one of each that would do the job perfectly. Our Nanny Erica has been with us since Ava and Levi were born. We love her. We have switched maids a few times but the one we have now is fabulous. Her name is Daisy. Our Chef Isaac is DA BOMB. He knows all of our favorite foods and has us try new food too. We love the help we have. They live with us and are like family. We love them and they love us.
One day when I was 5 Josh just turned 3 and the babies were, well...babies. My parents had the day off from work. They took us swimming. My parents turned their backs for 20 seconds and Josh had disappeared. Guess he could not wait and just hopped in the pool. Josh could swim. It wasn’t that big of a deal, except when some older kid decides to shove him under water. Josh drowned that day. I lost my best friend. I was devastated and that’s when I became the quiet kid. I did not talk to anybody and I would not tell anyone anything. I kept to myself.
The next 4 months were the worst months of my family life. I found out I had a stomach condition. Too much excitement or too little sleep and I get sick. It’s an anxiety based stomach disorder. Three weeks after that my parents found out Levi has Autism. It was difficult going to 1000 doctor appointments between the two of us each week. To make matters worse about a month after that, I was diagnosed with Leukemia. I went through chemo and had a bone marrow transplant and then I was better. The whole process took 9 months. It was hard on my family and me. The next few years were filled with pain. My mom and dad weren’t able to take care of us anymore. (That is the only thing in this whole autobiography I won’t get into detail about. For privacy of my family)
When I was 9, Ava and Levi were four, and Josh would have been 7, my parents found out I was going to have another little brother or sister. That July my twin brothers Elijah Ethan and Joel Jonathan were born. It was so much fun having more babies in the family. I loved being a big brother again. That was also the year I started being bullied in school, for being different and being the weird kid. That is also the year I started contemplating suicide. I was only 9 years old. That was not normal at all. I hated going to school. I was terrified of it. I would cry every morning because I had to leave my house. I never told my parents why I cried. They just thought my stomach hurt and that is what I told them. I was not going to tell them the truth. I could not.
I started acting out in school. My grades dropped and my behavior changed, a lot. In a few days, I went from goody-two-shoes to a little Tasmanian devil. I am barely exaggerating that. I got into a countless amount of fight. I swore at teachers. I hated school and hated the people there. My parents had no idea what had gotten into me. After a few psychology sessions, I was told I had a Conduct Disorder. I spent the next year being suspended and kicked out of school. I got in so many fights and in trouble for everything I did. When I reached 8th grade, I thought I was so cool. I had money other kids did not. Therefore, I bragged about it, a lot. I am still a little cocky.
Last March, my mom found out she was pregnant after my mom and dad promised to each other no more kids after Eli and Joel. My dad was drunk the night my mom told him. They got into a fight and yelled at each other. Quietly my brothers and sisters walked into the room. We watched the whole fight. It lasted a long time. My dad punched my mom a few times. I was sick of it. My dad cannot treat my mom like that. I went over and punched my dad in the face a few times, hard. The last punch hit him right in the temple and knocked him out. My mom ran over to the phone and called the cops. My dad went to a therapist and a psychologist and was put in rehab for a while.
In school, my grades slipped even more. I was failing almost every class. I was not very happy about it. One Saturday night in April, a guy from school was having a party. Almost everybody in our grade was there. I am not going into detail, but that night I became a father. My little sister and my son will be 3 months apart. This actually is not that weird considering my aunt is a year and 2 months younger than me. It seems a lot weirder than it will actually be. Over that summer, my life was actually normal. Except for the fact my parents got divorced. and my dad after going through therapy and rehab and psychology we could go over to his house.
In August, a week after school started, I was already sick of this person. He bullied me the year before and he was just terrible. I grabbed one of the pistols from the locked cabinet in my dad’s room (I know where the key is) and I shoved the gun into my backpack. I did not plan on firing it. I just brought it to scare him. A teacher saw the gun, and I ended up arrested. I was put in juvenile hall for 3 weeks. I was also put in foster care to get away from everybody at school. I moved back to Wisconsin. Back into the foster home, I was in when I was little. My foster brothers Brian and Eric were now 18 and 22. My foster brother Drake, who is 16, did not change a bit. He was still a dipstick. I hated him. I still do.
What a wonderful month September was. It started me just having a stomachache one Saturday morning. It was just a normal stomachache. Then it got a little worse. I took my medicine and things seemed fine. Monday morning came and I could barely move. I told my foster mom. I took my medicine again. Stomach STILL hurt. I stayed home that day. Monday night I went to the ER. What happens normally when somebody gets the same thing I have is that the blockage starts in the upper stomach and works itself down. The blockage I had started in my duodenum and then worked itself up. I had surgery to fix it. This whole thing just started with a stomachache. A week later I had another surgery to take out what was left of the blockage
In October, I switched foster homes. The other home I was in (yes the one with Drake.) was abusive. I got hurt there, and I am not going into detail. My new foster home was great. I have a brother who was in a few of my classes at school. He’s 14. His name is Deno. I have a little sister who’s 14. Her name is Katlee. I also have 2 other brothers that my foster parents recently adopted. Preston is 4 and Charlie is 9. My foster parents are nice. I also found out I had cancer again. My week now consists of online schooling, chemotherapy treatments and sleeping. Online schooling has allowed me to keep up on school work. I do not have to be physically in school anymore. This is nice when I am sick because I can still keep up with my work. I also recently had my spleen removed. This is not fun at all. I am allowed to live at home but on the weekends (will be moved to Tuesday-Wednesday starting this week (October 30, 2011) I go in for chemo and then stayed overnight.
I know I already said this but I am going to be a father. I know I am not ready. I know it will be hard. My ex-girlfriend is due February 17th with my son, who will be named Aidan Kade.
I do not have a lot of friends, but the few that I have I trust a lot. My best friend in the whole world, Vitaly, I care about a lot. I trust him. I tell him everything. I hope he knows he can trust me too. He’s the only person on this earth who knows everything about me. Sometimes I think he knows me more than my family does. I love him like a brother and I really wish he was my actual brother.
I enjoyed typing this autobiography a lot. It was a lot of fun. Some topics were touchy, writing some paragraphs brought back memories that made me laugh, and some made me cry. I will definitely add to this autobiography by adding to it every month.
Well that’s my life; the life of me. I can make it through this. I know I can. This is the life and dream of Kyler Fisher
Kate: ...uh no..no no no no no no. I said he was hot...I never agreed to any baby makin...There are only 3 guys I would make babies with...Aladdin, Alek and Tally Hall...Parker (no matter how hot that guy is) is not on that list...
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ReplyDeleteFine, I see how it is :P
ReplyDeleteKate: Ok...maybe i can put a 4th guy on that list...
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DeleteI said maybe...
DeleteBut you mean you will XD
DeleteYeah probably
ReplyDeleteYEAH!!!! I'm on the list. As Aladdin but heck yeah, I'm on the list
ReplyDeleteBtw, I call Kate for life.
ReplyDeleteBtw, too bad :P
ReplyDeleteBtw... Kate hates you Parker
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Deleteshe does not hate him...
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